Help Will Be There, If You Want It?


Those of us who devote our lives to helping people with addictions recover believe that we have a moral obligation to help all of our neighbors live full, drug-free lives. We have seen firsthand the damage that substance abuse has inflicted on individuals, their families and the communities, and we are dedicated to helping those suffering from the devastating effects of addiction.

The social stigma and fear of being ostracized and labeled — or thought of as “less than” — create persistent roadblocks for those seeking recovery from addiction. While I understand the frustration pundits feel about this growing problem, in my experience, early intervention and compassionate treatment are essential components to successful, sustained recovery.

Addiction is a disease, not a moral failing. It destroys self-esteem, thrives on silence and shame, replaces hope with despair, and destroys lives. There are many faces to addiction, and those who are addicted are our mothers and fathers, our brothers and our sisters, and our neighbors. Addiction affects all of us, and is not limited or defined by socioeconomic status, age or gender.

Addicted women often suffer alone in silence rather than risk the threat of incarceration or the possibility of losing their children if they seek help. The shame of being labeled failures drives many away from treatment. The cultural depiction of addicts as immoral, broken and “less than” does a disservice not only to these suffering human beings who need help, but also to our culture, which struggles to address the growing problem of substance abuse and addiction.

In pragmatic terms, this means accepting addicts wherever they are in their journey to heal and recover. We must support, encourage and empower those seeking recovery, not judge, blame or condemn them. No one can be forced to recover — to abstain from use, yes, but recovery involves much more than mere abstinence; authentic and lasting recovery also requires a change in character, behaviors, attitudes and perspectives.

We cannot effectively address the societal problem of substance abuse unless we encourage individuals to seek treatment, and treatment will not be effective as long as we view those suffering from addiction as social pariahs. I hope that as we grapple for answers we do not add to the problem of addiction by forcing more people into the shadows.

The disease of addiction has no “cure,” and there is no single “right” way to recover. Those seeking relief can choose from a variety of options for healing; some of the more popular methods are group or individual outpatient counseling, a residential programs, 12-step or other self-help programs, or medication-assisted withdrawal and maintenance.

I am an addict myself, been sober for over twenty years now, I am also founder of Angel Face Foundation. We are setting up and trying to reach out and help pregnant and parenting women build a substance-free future for themselves and their children. Young ladies and mothers who have not been able to obtain much-needed help because of common barriers to treatment, such as lack of child care and transportation. Our program provides in-home, targeted case management services, with a particular sensitivity to substance abuse and addiction. We in the near future would like to start to meet weekly with our friends in order to ensure that they have access to whatever resources they need in order to be successful in recovery, and to equip them with the knowledge and skills required to become the sort of parent every child deserves.

One child born addicted to substances or alcohol is one too many. For me and the other professionals who see these moms every day, early treatment and prevention coupled with healthy social supports is our best chance to break the chains of addiction. Pregnant or parenting mothers struggling with addiction need to know they are not alone. Help will be available here at Angel Face Foundation, this is are passion and goal. We are in the early stages of setting up what we know is needed in this epidemic.



We are here to share our experience with drug addiction how it affects both the addict and their families along with their friends. Bringing awareness about the war on drugs an how it has failed in many ways. You are welcome to comment even if you might disagree with the post, we here are a free speech zone. We will post it as long it's constructive towards solutions rather then being to harsh and judgmental causing it to be part of the problem. If you want to learn more about Angel Face Foundation you can click here! Thank you :-)

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4 comments on “Help Will Be There, If You Want It?
  1. darcsunshine says:

    Your foundation is for such a wonderful cause! Addiction awareness is so important. I don’t think alot of people realize that this is a disease just like any other. It takes courage and determination to get through it. Thank you for putting the word out there.


  2. kcsnoelle says:

    Reblogged this on Teen Drug Use and commented:
    help, teen drug abuse


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