Well I just had my Mother in-law passed away on Mothers day, she has been suffering from alzheimer’s, she would have been 92 in July. Going through a lot of drama from the wifes siblings we choice not to go to the wake and burial. I am sharing this with you to layout what has been happening lately, drama!!!!
So after all the screaming on the phone with them later on the night I got, the call! It was not from my friend Angelface but from another that I met out at the Pike! This lady also is an addict and just like my friend has moved on and was glad that she did until I got the call.
Just like Angelface she found one of the truckers to try to better her life. In fact I believe my friend Angelface pretty much learn the ropes from her from out at the Pike! Now please don’t get me wrong here, I am not saying all truckers are bad people one though must try to understand first how did these young ladies meet them, were they Johns, or were they just working men passing through and met them with good intentions?
My other friend here that called me up we will call her by her nick name that someone out there called Longhair! So like I was sharing with you, my phone rang and I saw who was calling me on my phone by my caller ID. Before I answered it I was very happy because I have not heard or seen from her in a long time.
Will that changed real quick, she was crying on the phone and I have never seen or hear from her like this before, will I have seen her in pain crying about her back but never this kind of crying for she was always a strong person. She was crying saying that,” My husband believes that we have a fling going on!” Her new husband is also a trucker.
She asked me, “could I text her a picture of Marie and myself to her to prove that I have a wife.” I asked her, “I got some older ones” and she replied, “No I need a new one if you could please!”So while I was on the phone she put it on speaker so he could hear me talk also. I said, “Longhair and myself are just good friends and that we never did anything like that at all. I went on to say that I loved her friend Angelface, and the main reason why I do try to keep in touch is because I care for them and did not want to lose contact with any of them!”
I then went and pulled my camera out and had my wifes friend take some pictures of us and downloaded them on my laptop and send it out to them texting other messages insuring him that it is strictly platonic between us! Texting them back which I don’t like doing any more since what happen with Angelface .
I want to also start here and say that I not trying to paint this man as a bad guy, he may be insecure but not bad and their relationship is what it is, rocky at best. These young ladies are addicts and they need a special kind of love and a lot of it if it will ever work out in the long run.
You as the man need to not bring up about her past, she is not perfect and neither are you. support her present, she is with you now and encourage her future. Help her through her journey in recovery! This is the best gift a husband can give to a wife who is an addict trying to make and break the chains of addiction!
Searching for the right partner in life is tough enough, add addiction in with it and you usually will have a toxic relationship and will go through pain in your journey. The pain is needed to grow, and as long as you learn from this and better yourself taking small steps each day, then you will be on your road towards recovery!
On the backside to all this, as a friend to both Angelface & Longhair, I can only listen and hold your hand. It is your demons and your battle. But you do have a loyal friend in me and have my prayers. Peace to all going through this journey and Gods Speed 🙂